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TOSOL #22 Date Free or Die!

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In this episode of “The Other Side of LIVE!” we begin with “Dating Done Right” and a look at Cindy Lu’s book, “The Four Man Plan.”  Halfway through our interview with faithful Four Man Planner Paige, our topic takes a darker turn towards abusive relationships and how to move past them.  We hope you enjoy this fantastic show, now entitled “Date Free or Die!”

 

Highlights:

  • ***Finally doing “Dating Done Right”

 

  • ***Rush Start with Charles doing several things at once

 

 

  • ***Stress Tank Talk

 

 

  • ***An interview with Four Man Planner Paige

 

  • ***“The Four Man Plan” Book Review

 

  • ***Paige’s overview of  “The Four Man Plan”

 

  • ***Mordant’s reasons for liking “He’s Just Not That Into You” and “The Four Man Plan”

 

  • ***How does one “suck at love”?

 

  • ***Paige’s experiences while using the 4MP (Four Man Plan)
  • ……….Dating different men at once and inspiring their competitive spirit will…
  • ……….Taking time to get to know each other before you have sex will…

 

  •  ***“A man will treat you only as well as he has to to get you in bed the first time.”  ~Cindy Lu, “The Four Man Plan” (paraphrased)~

 

  • ***Getting men to step up their dating game & the quality of their courtship

 

  • ***Sex is great, but what are you two going to do with the other 23 hours & 45 minutes of your day?   😉

 

  • ***You have to take responsibility for what is going on in your life and for how you are being treated in your dating relationship—you can’t just let it happen

 

  • ***Collecting Quarter Men (sometimes you find a diamond in the ruff)

 

  • ***Charles shares his story about how he met and began dating his wife

 

  • ***Being in an Abusive Relationship—getting out while the getting’s good

 

  • ***Being in an abusive relationship is not your fault, but it is your responsibility to get out of there

 

  • ***Rebuilding your self-esteem & self-worth

 

  •  ***Paige speaks as a Child of Abuse and about moving beyond that scenario

 

  • ***Paige Parker’s “Dating Without Drama”

 

  • ***Choose not to be a victim

 

  • ***Phoenix Area Listener Linda Cochran Schimmel calls in:
  • ……….Married into an abusive relationship
  • ……….Daughter has married into a similar situation

 

  • ***Mirror Neurons:  It’s what you do, not what you say, that has the most profound effect upon your children

 

  • ***Charles shares about fighting & making up in front of the children

 

  • ***Pointing someone in the right direction without stepping on their toes

 

  • ***Sex and the 4MP

 

  • ***We here at “The Other Side Of LIVE!” are in favor of SEX!

 

 

 

 

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