TOSOL #22 Date Free or Die!

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In this episode of “The Other Side of LIVE!” we begin with “Dating Done Right” and a look at Cindy Lu’s book, “The Four Man Plan.”  Halfway through our interview with faithful Four Man Planner Paige, our topic takes a darker turn towards abusive relationships and how to move past them.  We hope you enjoy this fantastic show, now entitled “Date Free or Die!”

 

Highlights:

• ***Finally doing “Dating Done Right”

 

• ***Rush Start with Charles doing several things at once

 

• ***Charles has a Baby:  http://www.youtube.com/ckymnstr

 

• ***Stress Tank Talk

 

• ***Mordant’s Trifecta of Dating Books:  “He’s Just Not That Into You” by Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo, “The Four Man Plan” by Cindy Lu, and “Become Your Own Matchmaker” by Patti Stanger

 

• ***An interview with Four Man Planner Paige

 

• ***“The Four Man Plan” Book Review

 

• ***Paige’s overview of  “The Four Man Plan”

 

• ***Mordant’s reasons for liking “He’s Just Not That Into You” and “The Four Man Plan”

 

• ***How does one “suck at love”?

 

• ***Paige’s experiences while using the 4MP (Four Man Plan)

• ……….Dating different men at once and inspiring their competitive spirit will…
• ……….Taking time to get to know each other before you have sex will…

 

•  ***“A man will treat you only as well as he has to to get you in bed the first time.”  ~Cindy Lu, “The Four Man Plan” (paraphrased)~

 

• ***Getting men to step up their dating game & the quality of their courtship

 

• ***Sex is great, but what are you two going to do with the other 23 hours & 45 minutes of your day?   😉

 

• ***You have to take responsibility for what is going on in your life and for how you are being treated in your dating relationship—you can’t just let it happen

 

• ***Collecting Quarter Men (sometimes you find a diamond in the ruff)

 

• ***Charles shares his story about how he met and began dating his wife

 

• ***Being in an Abusive Relationship—getting out while the getting’s good

 

• ***Being in an abusive relationship is not your fault, but it is your responsibility to get out of there

 

• ***Rebuilding your self-esteem & self-worth

 

•  ***Paige speaks as a Child of Abuse and about moving beyond that scenario

 

• ***Paige Parker’s “Dating Without Drama”

 

• ***Choose not to be a victim

 

• ***Phoenix Area Listener Linda Cochran Schimmel calls in:

• ……….Married into an abusive relationship
• ……….Daughter has married into a similar situation

 

• ***Mirror Neurons:  It’s what you do, not what you say, that has the most profound effect upon your children

 

• ***Charles shares about fighting & making up in front of the children

 

• ***Pointing someone in the right direction without stepping on their toes

 

• ***Sex and the 4MP

 

• ***We here at “The Other Side Of LIVE!” are in favor of SEX!

 

• ***Bug Charles and get the Bear Crawling Nation app at bearcrawling@gmail.com

 

• ***You can find Paige’s website at http://scentuallyyours.com/

 

 

Honorable Mentions:

• http://mixlr.com/bearcrawling
• http://www.facebook.com/MordantWorld
• http://mordantworld.com/
• https://twitter.com/#!/bcnlivenow
• http://bearcrawlingnation.com/

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